#9 To Attend Weddings

If you are unemployed, and people invite you to events, they expect the unemployed person to come, because it is a well known fact that the unemployed person really doesn’t have any reason ever to turn down invitations.

Well if the unemployed person is in the younger stages of adult hood that means you don’t have any excuse not to go to weddings. Now, weddings are fun, usually, and an employed person or unemployed person will likely go for the free drinks, chance encounters with single members of the sex of their preference, and basically an excuse to dress up and cry as your buddy or gal pal walks down the aisle.

Which is all good, except…

For the fact that weddings, will require unemployed people to answer the usual questions. For example the guy in line for drinks next you will drop this gem “what have you been doing these days? I just finished medical school, delivered a baby during the ceremony and am going to remove that cancerous growth from the bride’s father's back after we wrap up the reception.” Well shit.

Unemployed people have two plays at this point – play the sympathy card or lie. First, the sympathy card requires the unemployed person to put on a good face about being unemployed (so you don’t look like a whiner), but still letting on that it sucks balls being unemployed. Now this may get you a hug from the groom’s grandma, but it ain’t going to do much for your social prowess, because you are still that boring unemployed person.

Therefore, unemployed people often lie, and if they don’t lie they tell very exaggerated versions of the truth. For example, see #s 3 and 4 on the list. An unemployed person who casually writes a blog about being unemployed could talk about it for an hour or so and make themselves sound like the second coming of Perez Hilton. Or you could talk about your company almost being ready to launch….but not quite yet….it goes something like this “the start up is almost ready it is going to be amazing web 2.0 shit….business card? Oh no, we have not printed those yet…website? Oh no, keeping the deets under wraps…etc.”

Or the unemployed person can flat out lie. Suggested fake occupations for men include architect, writer, or bar owner. Ladies, go with yoga instructor/chef, teacher, or depressed bride’s maid looking to hook up (never can go wrong with that one).

In conclusion, weddings are fun, but being unemployed creates a dilemma for many unemployed people. So just remember next time you see an “architect” making moves on a “yoga instructor/chef” at a wedding – give them some sympathy and offer to get them their next drink – they need it.